Saturday 20 April 2013

On The Road

My, how time flies! It seems like it was just yesterday that I was in Halifax packing and cleaning like a mad woman (because I'm a procrastinator) and fleeing the province.  But I suppose it has only been about three weeks since I left … so I guess it kind of was just yesterday?

I am currently in Calgary visiting my sister - cooking her meals and doing her laundry like any good sister would do. She IS giving me a free place to stay, among other things, so it's probably a fair trade.  Plus she has to put up with my bossy/mother-like tendencies sooo … maybe I should do more?

My departure from Halifax was a bit of a whirlwind, mainly because I worked almost up until I left which only gave me a few days to pack, move, clean and say so-long to the city and my friends.  It actually worked out for the best because I didn't have much time to start second-guessing myself and my decision to leave.  Although it was sad to say good-bye to so may people I love, I know that I will keep in touch with everyone and see them again! I also made a point of spending lots of time with my friends and visiting my favourite places (ex - Durty Nelly's, Noble, Ob La Dee - all of which are coincidentally drinking establishments …) during my last month in Halifax.

My first stop was Montreal - a city I've been to quite a few times and absolutely love.  It was also a reunion with some of my dearest friends who I have known since high school.  It's comforting to have friends who you might not get to see all that often but when you do reunite, it feels as though no time has passed at all and you pick up right where you left off. 

Our time together in Montreal consisted of a lot of drinking and eating as ANY good trip does.  Some people eat to live but I live to eat and I'm okay with that.  A few things I did during my Montreal visit included strolling the streets of Old Montreal with Rosalind, eating at a delicious crepe restaurant where Jennie works with Jennie, Nick, and Rosalind.  It is called Spanel and I HIGHLY recommend visiting if you love both sweet and savoury crepes (who doesn't?). I also went to a Scandinavian day spa for some relaxation - because having no job and nothing in particular to do every day just wasn't enough.   We obviously did more than I mentioned here but as I said, the focus was eating, drinking, and spending time together.  Some moments have been captured on film and will be part of my next video blog (COMING SOONISH).

After about a week in Montreal I hopped on the train and headed to Toronto, a city I had never been to. I must say - I was going there with an open mind but had also heard a lot of things about the city that weren't the greatest.  I had heard on multiple occasions that people in Toronto aren't very friendly, the city isn't overly pretty, etc.  Much to my pleasant surprise, I actually loved Toronto! I stayed with Nick and he hooked me up with a map and basic overview of the city and from there I just kind of explored during the days while he worked.  People were friendly and there are so many cool (and pretty!) areas of the city.  I guess with any place you visit and/or live there are going to be positive and negative aspects.  After living in Seoul, I had my fair share of experiences with not-so-nice people and not-so-pretty areas BUT, for every negative aspect there were at LEAST two positives.  And I'm sure that rings true for a lot of places. 

In Toronto, I continued with the eating and drinking (as I'm sure you guessed) but also met up with a lot of different friends from all over.  I reunited with four friends who I had met while teaching in Korea and it was SO fun! I also got to spend time with friends from Nova Scotia and from Dal.  And OF COURSE Nick who let me stay with him for a week.  In addition to food, drinks, and reunions I went to two tapings of George Stroumboulopoulos Tonight.  The first show was an interview with Laurence Fishburne and for the second taping I got to see Rob Stewart, the director of Sharkwater and Revolution.  It was so much fun!  I went to two different shows at theatres that Nick works for, ate some delicious Korean food, went in the CN Tower (had to), and visited the distillery district where I hoped to do a Mill St. brewery tour but it just so happened that on that day something was broken so they weren't running it.  I drank some beer in lieu of going on the tour.  The CN Tower was a bit frightening because it's really effing high.  And that glass floor? I mean, they say it can hold 14 hippos but have they ACTUALLY tested it? I don't think so.  Overall I had a blast in Toronto and would love to go back and visit again.

I had initially planned on making a stop in Manitoba to visit my friend Jill.  After some investigation, I kind of realized that I had planned for too much in a short period of time so decided to save my Manitoba visit for warmer weather & the POLAR BEARS and spend more time in Calgary with my sister.  I will also be seeing Jill this summer when we spend a month together in Europe.

SO THAT BRINGS US TO PRESENT DAY.  I am in Calgary and have been here for a week.  I kind of thought this city would be full of cowboys but I was wrong.  I have only seen two people sporting cowboy hats.  I am now, in this moment, just realizing that maybe it's not other people who jump to conclusions about cities they have never been to … but me.  I mean, I thought people in Toronto were going to be mean and that Calgary was going to be full of hicks with lots of money.  I'm half-kidding.  I thought there was a CHANCE that it could be true.  But it's not.  The city is actually really multi-cultural and seems to be more of a business hub than I had anticipated.  And lots of engineers.  Can't swing a dick here without hitting an engineer. 

This weekend I am going to Banff with my sister and her roommates. Erin refuses to go on a gondola ride because the last time she and her friends got stuck in mid-air on one due to inclement weather and she is afraid of heights.  Which is valid - but what you don't know is that my sister has lots of … 'fears'.  I use this term loosely because they include more common ones such as the dark and the dentist … but also less common/irrational ones such as whales.  That Free Willy … quite the monster.  I MEAN.  Anyway, it will be really fun.  After that I head to Edmonton and then to BC.  After that - my plans are not fully concrete yet!

UNTIL THEN, KEEP IT SEXY GUYS.  I do have plans to work on a video blog in the VERY near future so hold tight for that.  There is just so much pressure though.  Expectations are running high. HOPE I CAN DELIVER.

Lots of love,

Kandace

(This blog was written on Friday but posted on Saturday.  So technically I am in Banff currently but for the sake of the blog, just go with it.)